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Paul Weeden

Paul Weeden, BACP

United Kingdom

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BACP counsellor - Stress and family concerns

  • Breathing techniques
  • Routine and lifestyle
  • Cognitive approaches

About Paul

Paul Weeden is a BACP counsellor in the United Kingdom with 15 years of experience. He works with adults on stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, career worries and depression, and addresses relationship and family concerns including blended family issues. He also supports people dealing with addiction, grief, sleep problems and coping with life changes.

He uses practical exercises and simple breathing and relaxation techniques to help reduce overwhelm. Sessions include talking through current problems, reviewing daily routines and building small lifestyle changes that make a difference. He encourages clearer boundaries between work and home and helps clients find activities that restore energy and focus.

Paul pays attention to how past experiences affect present behaviour. He draws on client-centred listening alongside cognitive approaches to challenge unhelpful thinking. That mix helps people make short-term changes while also looking at deeper patterns that repeat in relationships and self-image.

For parents and people connected to adolescents he offers support around separation, routine changes and academic planning, described in plain terms and practical steps. He also works with people facing issues such as abandonment, attachment difficulties and neurodiversity-related challenges including autism and Asperger syndrome.

Sessions are straightforward and focused. Paul aims to help people organise steps they can try between meetings, review what worked, and adjust plans. He accepts international clients and works in English.

How Paul combines therapeutic approaches for online work

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and understanding the client's perspective. It is about reflecting what someone says, helping them identify their own goals and making decisions that feel right for them. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at the link between thoughts, feelings and behaviours and offers practical exercises to test and change unhelpful thinking. These methods can help with anxiety, low mood and relationship tension.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. Paul treats this as a collaborative task and will discuss options with the client so they can pick methods that match their goals and preferences. He balances short-term problem solving with attention to longer-standing patterns when that seems useful.

Confirm the current session options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy week and to have a shorter check-in when time is limited. It can also reduce travel time and allow clients to practise techniques learned in sessions in their daily routines. Registered and accredited professionals, including counsellors and therapists, adapt online work to suit practical needs and session goals.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietySelf esteemCareer difficultiesDepressionCoaching

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic Therapy

Experience

15+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does he address related to blended households?

He lists blended family issues among his areas of focus and helps people handle merging routines, loyalty conflicts and role changes.

What is his general therapeutic style?

He uses a client-centred approach combined with cognitive and psychodynamic ideas, aiming for practical steps alongside exploration of past patterns.

How much experience does he have?

He has 15 years of professional experience working with stress, anxiety, depression and related concerns.

What credential does he hold and where is he based?

He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises from the United Kingdom.

Does he offer sessions in other languages?

Sessions are offered in English.

Will he work with international clients?

International clients are accepted.

How are sessions paid for and what does cost look like?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin booking a session?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule a first session.

Online talk therapy is for adults and is not emergency care, mediation or legal advice. If you or a child are in danger, use the emergency numbers. Find someone else by name.

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