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Paul Dokey

Paul Dokey, LCSW

Montana

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LCSW - Relationships and Blended family issues

  • CBT techniques
  • Mindfulness skills
  • Attachment focus

About Paul

Paul Dokey is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in Montana with 20 years of experience. He works with adults facing stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, relationship challenges, addictions, grief, parenting strain, ADHD, and blended family issues. He also addresses intimacy-related concerns, anger, self-esteem, bipolar disorder, and coping with life changes.

Paul uses straightforward, present-focused therapy. He pays attention to current patterns of thinking and behavior. He helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and try different responses. Mindfulness and practical skills are part of sessions.

He trained in cultural anthropology at the bachelor's level before moving into social work. That background informs how he listens for family and cultural patterns that affect daily life. Over two decades he has worked with people who have experienced loss, trauma, or long-term stress.

In sessions Paul often works on changing self-defeating beliefs and building skills to manage strong emotions. He uses cognitive behavioral techniques alongside mindfulness exercises. He also draws on attachment ideas to look at how close relationships influence behavior.

People coming from stepfamily or blended household situations can expect direct, practical conversation about co-parenting, loyalty conflicts, merging routines, and role expectations. Paul aims to help clients find clearer communication and manageable strategies for day-to-day life.

How his therapeutic approaches work in online sessions

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on noticing thoughts rather than fighting them, then choosing actions that align with personal values. It can help when daily stress or avoidance gets in the way of relationships and parenting duties. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at patterns of thinking that lead to unhelpful behavior and offers practical steps to test and change those beliefs. It is often used for anxiety, depression, and problem-solving around blended household routines. Attachment-Based Therapy examines patterns in close relationships and how early bonds shape reactions to conflict and trust issues. It can clarify why loyalty conflicts or communication problems repeat.

Finding the right approach is part of therapy. The therapist will work collaboratively to test methods and adjust based on what helps with your goals. Expect a mix of talking, skill practice, and short exercises you can use between sessions.

Session format options are not specified in the biography, so confirm current session types before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into busy days, shorten check-ins when schedules demand, or avoid travel time. Licensed professionals can also use straightforward exercises and worksheets that translate well to remote meetings, making regular practice easier to maintain.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsDepression

Also works with

Trauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSexual assault and abuseSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Listed in

Montana

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does he address?

He works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, addictions, relationship and blended family issues among other concerns.

What is his therapeutic style?

He uses a present-focused approach that combines cognitive behavioral methods with mindfulness and attachment ideas to address thinking and relationship patterns.

How much experience does he have?

He has 20 years of clinical experience working with adults on mood, trauma, relationship, and behavioral concerns.

What are his credentials and location?

He is a Montana Licensed Clinical Social Worker (MT LCSW) based in Montana.

Can sessions be conducted in languages other than English?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does he work with international clients?

He does accept international clients; confirm logistics and time zones when scheduling.

How are sessions arranged and paid for?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin a first session?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule your first session.

Online talk therapy is for adults and is not emergency care, mediation or legal advice. If you or a child are in danger, use the emergency numbers. Find someone else by name.

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