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Patricia Sumlin

Patricia Sumlin, LMFT

Washington

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LMFT - Relationships and Family Concerns

  • Attachment patterns
  • ACT and CBT methods
  • Emotion regulation skills

About Patricia

Patricia Sumlin is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) in Washington with 25 years of experience. She works with adults facing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and family concerns, trauma and abuse, and a wide range of other life challenges including blended family issues. She also supports people dealing with addictions, grief, intimacy and parenting strains, ADHD, and career-related stress.

Her approach blends practical skill building with reflective work. Sessions focus on building emotional regulation, improving communication, and developing concrete coping strategies. Patricia uses a mix of evidence-based approaches including cognitive behavioral techniques and acceptance-focused strategies to help people manage thoughts and behaviors.

She draws on attachment-based ideas to look at relationship patterns and how early bonds shape current conflicts. Dialectical behavior ideas are used when people need tools for intense emotions and distress tolerance. The work aims to be straightforward, direct, and collaborative rather than abstract.

Patricia’s background includes community mental health, program leadership, and work in challenging settings such as homeless services, hospice, and trauma-informed programs in Alaska. That experience informs practical problem solving and attention to diverse cultural contexts, including work with Native American and Native Alaskan populations.

People who choose her often want clear strategies they can use between sessions. To get started, clients complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session. Sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time, and fees vary with location.

How her approaches translate to online sessions

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and focus on actions that match their values. It is often used for anxiety, stress, and life transitions to help people move toward what matters instead of getting stuck on thoughts.

Attachment-Based Therapy looks at relationship patterns and early bonds to understand current conflicts. This approach is useful for people who want to change how they relate to partners or household members and to reduce repeating old patterns.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Patricia collaborates with each person to pick strategies that match their goals, preferences, and day-to-day needs. She may combine acceptance ideas, attachment focus, and cognitive-behavioral techniques so people gain both insight and practical tools.

Confirm the exact session formats before booking, as formats are not specified in the biography. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy routine, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when schedules are tight. They also allow choosing sessions that require less bandwidth or do not use video when that helps with focus or convenience. Licensed professionals and therapists commonly adapt exercises and skill practice to work over distance, keeping sessions focused on usable strategies for everyday blended household challenges.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

25+ years

Listed in

California, Washington

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What types of concerns does she address?

She works with adults on stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, relationship and family concerns, blended family issues, addictions, grief, and related areas.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is practical and direct, focusing on skill building, emotional regulation, and clearer communication rather than abstract discussion.

How much experience does she have?

She has 25 years of clinical experience across community settings, program leadership, and specialized treatment programs.

What are her credentials and location?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist - CA LMFT and WA LMFT LF - based in Washington.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does she work with international clients?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are sessions paid for and what do they cost?

Cost varies with location; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Online talk therapy is for adults and is not emergency care, mediation or legal advice. If you or a child are in danger, use the emergency numbers. Find someone else by name.

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