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Otilia Rowe

Otilia Rowe, LCSW

New York

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LCSW - Stress and Relationship Concerns

  • CBT
  • ACT
  • EMDR

About Otilia

Otilia Rowe is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in New York with eight years of clinical experience. She works in English and Spanish and focuses on stress, anxiety, relationship concerns, family issues, trauma and abuse, and major life transitions. Her practice also addresses intimacy concerns, parenting stress, self-esteem, career pressures, compassion fatigue, and blended family issues.

She uses straightforward, practical methods in sessions. Conversations aim to clarify what matters most and build small, doable steps. Expect a mix of talking through patterns and practicing tools to manage strong emotions and reduce overwhelm.

Otilia draws on several evidence-based approaches. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy helps identify unhelpful thoughts and change behavior. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy supports values-based choices when stress feels blocking. Dialectical Behavior Therapy and Emotionally-Focused Therapy offer skills for regulating emotions and improving connection. She also includes EMDR when working with trauma.

Sessions are described as purposeful and direct, focused on tangible change rather than abstract reflection. She supports people who want to keep their ambitions while finding better ways to cope. The tone is practical and often includes some lightness alongside focused work.

Clients come for short-term skills or longer work on deeper patterns. People often seek help for boundaries, blended household tensions, attachment concerns, body image, or the fallout of separation and divorce. If Spanish is preferred, she can provide therapy in that language.

Therapeutic approaches and online sessions

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, is about clarifying personal values and taking small steps toward them even when uncomfortable feelings appear. It helps when stress or life changes make it hard to act on what matters. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, breaks down how thoughts influence feelings and actions, then practices new ways of responding to reduce anxiety and improve daily functioning. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, EMDR, is used to process traumatic memories and reduce their emotional intensity through structured protocols.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with the client about goals, preferences, and what feels most useful. Together they decide whether to try brief skills work, deeper trauma-focused methods, or a mix of approaches as needs evolve.

Confirm the current session formats before booking. Once confirmed, online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, save travel time, and allow for shorter check-ins when needed. They also let people join from different locations within the therapist's permitted region, which can help keep continuity when routines change.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

LGBTIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSelf-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodSolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

8+ years

Listed in

New York

Languages

English, Spanish

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, relationship and family concerns, trauma and abuse, parenting stress, self-esteem, and blended family issues among other topics.

What is her approach in sessions?

She uses direct, practical methods that combine talk with skills practice. Therapy focuses on clear steps to manage emotions and change patterns.

How much experience does she have?

She has eight years of clinical experience as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker.

Where is she licensed and based?

She is an LCSW licensed in New York and practices from that location.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Spanish.

Can she work with international clients?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions arranged and what does it cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started with therapy?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Online talk therapy is for adults and is not emergency care, mediation or legal advice. If you or a child are in danger, use the emergency numbers. Find someone else by name.

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