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Nicola Ellis

Nicola Ellis, BACP

United Kingdom

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BACP counsellor - relationship and family concerns

  • Attachment-based work
  • Mindfulness practice
  • Hypnotherapy offered

About Nicola

Nicola Ellis is a BACP-registered counsellor practising from the United Kingdom with six years' experience. She works with adults on common concerns such as anxiety, depression, stress and relationship issues. Her profile also lists blended family issues among other focus areas, so she can support people navigating stepfamily and blended household challenges.

Nicola trained with a BA (Hons) in Person-Centred Counselling and a BSc (Hons) in Psychology, and she blends those perspectives in her work. Sessions are client-led and aim to move at a pace that feels manageable. Conversations are straightforward and practical, concentrating on what is bothering the person now and what might help day to day.

Her approach draws on attachment-based ideas and client-centred practice, with additional methods such as hypnotherapy, Imago relationship therapy and mindfulness. That lets her offer different ways of working, for example talking through patterns in relationships, noticing how stress shows up in the body, and practising simple awareness exercises.

Nicola lists a broad range of concerns she can address, including trauma and abuse, ADHD, addictions, grief, intimacy-related issues, parenting strains, and coping with life changes. She also notes areas such as adoption and foster care, attachment issues, and body image among her focus areas.

Sessions are available to people in the United Kingdom and to international clients. Costs vary with location and the service uses a subscription that can be cancelled at any time. To begin, a person selects the online therapy options button, completes a short matching questionnaire, and books a first session.

How her approaches translate to online work

Attachment-based work looks at patterns in relationships and how early bonds affect current reactions. Online sessions can help people notice these patterns, discuss loyalty conflicts in blended households, and try new ways of relating in day-to-day life.

Client-centred practice means the session follows the person's pace and concerns. In an online conversation this often translates to reflective listening, checking what matters most, and setting small, realistic steps to try between sessions.

Mindfulness practice offers simple exercises for noticing thoughts and bodily tension. These can be taught and practised during remote sessions and used to reduce reactivity during stressful moments at home.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will work with the client to identify which methods fit their needs, goals and preferences, and adjust the plan as things change. That means starting with what the person wants to address and testing gentle options rather than committing to one method up front.

Confirm the exact session formats before booking, as the original profile did not list current options in detail. Online work can make it easier to fit counseling around daily life - for example shorter check-ins during a lunch break, not needing to travel, or avoiding camera use when that feels better. Registered or accredited professionals offer the sessions, and practical arrangements are agreed at the first contact.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyHypnotherapyImago Relationship TherapyMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

6+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She works with adults on issues such as anxiety, depression, stress, trauma and relationship concerns. Blended family issues are listed among her focus areas.

How would she describe her way of working?

Her style is client-led and practical. She combines client-centred listening with techniques from attachment work and mindfulness.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has six years' experience working as a counsellor.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and is based in the United Kingdom.

Can sessions be done in other languages or from other countries?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original profile indicates remote options were offered; please confirm current session formats before booking.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Begin by selecting the See online therapy options button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and scheduling an initial session.

Online talk therapy is for adults and is not emergency care, mediation or legal advice. If you or a child are in danger, use the emergency numbers. Find someone else by name.

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