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Nathalie Contro

Nathalie Contro, LMFT

California

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California LMFT - relationships and blended family issues

  • Attachment based work
  • CBT strategies
  • Client centered focus

About Nathalie

Nathalie Contro is a California LMFT with three years of experience. She works with adults on stress, anxiety, addiction, relationships, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy issues, parenting concerns, and blended family issues. She also addresses eating and sleeping problems, anger, self-esteem, career concerns, and coping with life changes.

Contro focuses on straightforward collaboration. She helps people notice patterns, learn practical skills, and try different ways of communicating. Sessions aim to build clearer boundaries, better coping strategies, and more reliable ways to handle conflict and triggers.

Her approach draws on attachment-based ideas and client-centered methods. Contro also uses cognitive behavioral techniques and elements of dialectical behavior therapy when they fit a person’s needs. She may bring Jungian ideas into conversation about meaning and personal symbolism.

In practice she listens for strengths and recurring problems. Then she offers tools - such as thought-restructuring, emotion-regulation skills, or exercises to practice new interactions. Work can include looking at how past relationships shape current reactions, and how to shift those patterns.

Sessions are practical and focused on what someone can use between meetings. She speaks English and Spanish and is based in California. Prospective clients are asked to use the site process to complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session. The subscription for sessions can be canceled at any time.

How her approaches translate to online sessions

Attachment-based work looks at patterns in close relationships and how early bonds influence current reactions. Online conversations using this frame tend to focus on recognizing those patterns and trying different ways of relating in daily life. Client-centered therapy centers on the person’s experience and priorities and involves reflective listening and questions that help someone clarify their own goals and values. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on the links between thoughts, feelings, and actions and uses short exercises and homework to test new ways of thinking and behaving.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will discuss options and adjust methods based on the client’s needs, goals, and preferences. That collaboration helps pick which techniques to emphasize across sessions.

The therapist’s exact session formats are not listed here, so please confirm available options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit meetings into a busy life, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. They also let clients practice communication skills between meetings in the settings where problems actually come up, which can make new behaviors more practical and sustainable.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsDepression

Also works with

Trauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Jungian TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

3+ years

Listed in

California

Languages

English, Spanish

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she address?

She works with stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship and family issues, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy and parenting topics, and related concerns listed in her profile.

How would she describe her style?

Her style is collaborative and practical. She helps people learn skills and notice patterns to change unhelpful behaviors.

What experience does she bring?

She holds three years of experience as an LMFT and uses several therapeutic approaches in her work.

What are her credentials and location?

She is an LMFT licensed in California and practices from that state.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Spanish.

Can I work with her from another country?

She does not accept international clients; sessions are provided to people located in the therapist's licensed jurisdiction.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and sessions are arranged through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Online talk therapy is for adults and is not emergency care, mediation or legal advice. If you or a child are in danger, use the emergency numbers. Find someone else by name.

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