- Blended family issues
- Hypnotherapy and CBT
- Attachment and intimacy
About Lynfa
Lynfa Wharam is a psychotherapeutic counsellor and hypnotherapist registered with NCPS in the United Kingdom, with seven years' experience working directly with clients. She works with stress, anxiety, relationship and intimacy-related issues, self-esteem, depression, addictions, family and blended family issues, trauma and abuse, grief, eating concerns, parenting and career difficulties. Lynfa also lists ADHD, coaching and a range of attachment and relationship concerns among her focus areas.
Lynfa adopts an integrative style. She mixes person-centred listening with practical techniques from cognitive behavioural approaches and mindfulness. She also uses hypnotherapy and draws on Jungian ideas when these approaches fit a person's needs. Sessions are conversational and goal-focused when needed, or exploratory when people want to understand patterns in their relationships.
Her background includes two decades working in international law firms in London and Essex before moving into counselling. That earlier career shaped her practical mindset and experience of high-pressure environments. During the pandemic she volunteered providing mental health support to NHS workers and care-home staff through Project5.
People who contact Lynfa can expect direct, straightforward conversation about difficult topics such as intimacy, commitment, communication problems, blended household stress, grief and recovery after abuse. She offers individual work and has also worked with people around sexual health and relationship difficulties.
Sessions aim to identify immediate coping strategies and longer-term changes to patterns of thinking and behaviour. Clients explore attachment and abandonment concerns, control and commitment issues, or practical parenting and co-parenting challenges. The approach balances short-term tools with deeper exploration of personal history.
How Lynfa uses different approaches in online sessions
Client-centred therapy focuses on listening and understanding a person's experience. It helps people feel heard and clarifies their priorities before choosing techniques to try. Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) works with thoughts and behaviours. It offers practical exercises to reduce anxiety, manage mood, and change unhelpful patterns in relationships.Hypnotherapy uses guided relaxation and focused attention to access thoughts and habits that feel hard to change. It can be used alongside talking therapy to support behaviour change, reduce anxiety, or tackle eating and intimacy-related concerns. Lynfa draws on these approaches to match what each person needs rather than using a single method for everyone.
Deciding which approach to use is collaborative. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences and what has or has not helped before. Together they try an approach for a few sessions and adjust based on progress and feedback.
Confirm current session formats before booking because the biography does not specify them. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a working day, save travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. Registered or accredited professionals often offer flexible options, and Lynfa will help find a way of working that fits everyday life and the tasks people want to tackle.
Areas of expertise
Primary focus
Also works with
Additional focus areas
Therapeutic approaches
Experience
7+ years
Listed in
United Kingdom
Languages
English
Frequently asked questions
What kinds of problems does she support?
She works with stress, anxiety, relationship and intimacy issues, self-esteem, depression, addictions, trauma and abuse, grief, eating concerns, parenting and career challenges, and blended family issues.
What is her therapeutic style?
Her style is integrative and practical, combining client-centred listening with techniques from CBT, mindfulness and hypnotherapy. Sessions can be conversational, skills-focused, or more exploratory depending on the issue.
How much experience does she have?
She has seven years' experience working as a counsellor and hypnotherapist, following a long career in international law firms.
What are her credentials and where is she based?
She holds the NCPS credential and practices from the United Kingdom.
Can I work with her if I live outside the UK?
Sessions are offered to international clients and are conducted in English.
What session formats does she offer?
Please confirm current session options before booking as formats are not specified in the biography.
How are costs handled?
Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin with her?
Begin by selecting the See online therapy options button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and scheduling a first session.
Online talk therapy is for adults and is not emergency care, mediation or legal advice. If you or a child are in danger, use the emergency numbers. Find someone else by name.