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Dr. Lucy Flitton

Dr. Lucy Flitton, BACP, NCPS

United Kingdom

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Dr Lucy Flitton - Counsellor for anxiety and family issues

  • Blended family issues
  • Trauma and addiction
  • ACT and attachment

About Lucy

Dr Lucy Flitton is a BACP and NCPS registered counsellor working in the United Kingdom with 17 years' clinical experience. She sees adults who are struggling with stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma, parenting strains, depression, relationship and family difficulties, and issues linked to sleep, eating and self-esteem. She also lists blended family issues among her areas of focus.

Lucy uses straightforward, conversational work to help people notice what keeps repeating in their relationships. She pays attention to how emotions appear in the body and to the ways language shapes thinking. Sessions often involve talking things through, exploring practical skills for managing strong emotions, and making sense of patterns that keep coming up.

Her approach draws from several methods including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, attachment-based ideas and cognitive behavioural techniques. She describes working within a client-centred framework and will adapt techniques to the problem someone brings. Expect collaborative discussions and simple exercises to try between sessions.

Lucy also brings perspectives from developmental and health psychology to understand life events across time. She uses somatic ideas and polyvagal-informed ways of noticing physical reactions when relevant. That can be useful for people dealing with trauma-related symptoms or chronic stress.

Many of the issues she lists involve relationship conflict, parenting pressure or making new household routines. She can help a person untangle loyalty tensions, role confusion and communication problems that arise in stepfamily and blended household situations. To begin, the site matching process is used to arrange a first appointment.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online sessions

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on clarifying values and taking small, practical steps towards them while learning to notice painful thoughts without being ruled by them. It is often used for anxiety, low mood and life changes. Attachment-Based Therapy pays attention to how early and current relationships shape expectations and responses; it helps with intimacy-related problems, trust and communication patterns.

Finding the best approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss your goals and preferences and try different methods where needed. This is collaborative - you and the therapist decide together which strategies feel useful and realistic for your situation.

The original biography does not list specific session formats, so please confirm the available online options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy around work, childcare and household routines. They also let people use shorter check-ins when time is limited, avoid travel, or choose not to be on camera if that helps them engage. Registered or accredited professionals can adapt exercises and homework for remote sessions so practical skills are still practised between appointments.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

17+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she work with?

She works with stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, parenting, depression, relationship and family difficulties, grief and a wide range of related concerns including blended family issues.

What style of therapy does she use?

Her style is client-centred and practical. She combines approaches such as ACT, attachment-based ideas, CBT and DBT techniques to match the issue a person brings.

How long has she been practising?

She has 17 years of professional experience working with adults on a range of mental health and relational concerns.

What credentials does she hold and where is she based?

She is listed with BACP and NCPS and works from the United Kingdom.

Does she see people who live outside the UK?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

Which session formats are offered?

The original biography does not specify session formats. Please confirm the current session options before booking.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin a first appointment?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session through the platform.

Online talk therapy is for adults and is not emergency care, mediation or legal advice. If you or a child are in danger, use the emergency numbers. Find someone else by name.

Dr. Lucy FlittonBACP, NCPS

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