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Kaye Barney

Kaye Barney, BACP

United Kingdom

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Counsellor - Relationships and life changes

  • Attachment-based work
  • Client-centred focus
  • CBT techniques

About Kaye

Kaye Barney is a counsellor registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and has eight years' experience. She works with people facing relationship strain, low self-esteem, grief, anxiety and depression. Her practice also covers stress, parenting concerns, eating and sleeping issues, and a range of other life changes.

She explains how relationships shape daily life, including ties with partners, parents, friends and colleagues, and the way people relate to themselves. When relationships feel off, Kaye says this can affect confidence, motivation, mood and even interest in sex. She aims to help people name those effects and take practical steps to address them.

In sessions she uses several counselling methods to suit each person’s needs. Kaye helps clients look at patterns in their relationships, understand how early attachments may influence current reactions, and try small changes that can ease stress and conflict. Conversations usually focus on clear, manageable goals rather than abstract theory.

She also works with issues such as betrayal, separation, abandonment, communication problems, and the particular stresses that can come with blended family arrangements. Kaye can support people worried about compulsive behaviours, anger or feeling overwhelmed by caring roles.

Kaye trained in psychology and counselling and holds a diploma in relationship counselling plus a foundation certificate in transactional analysis. She teaches counselling trainees and supervises other counsellors. Her way of working is straightforward: talk through the problem, test practical steps, and review progress together.

How Kaye uses her approaches in online sessions

Attachment-Based work looks at how early bonds affect current relationships. It helps people spot repeating patterns in trust, closeness and conflict, and is useful for worries about intimacy, abandonment or blended family tensions.

Client-Centred work focuses on listening and reflection. It gives space to talk through feelings and choices, helping people build clearer self-understanding and make decisions about relationships or life changes.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Kaye will talk with each person about what feels most helpful and adjust methods as needs and goals become clearer. That process is collaborative and practical rather than prescriptive.

Please confirm which session formats are offered before booking, because the biography does not list them. Online sessions can make it easier to fit counselling into a busy week, reduce travel time and allow shorter or more flexible check-ins when needed. They also let people join from different locations if international arrangements are relevant. Registered or accredited professionals can adapt exercises used in face-to-face work to suit a remote session, for example through focused conversation, short behavioural tasks and reviewing progress together.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyLGBTFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDependent personalityDivorce and separationEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersMulticultural concernsPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Psychodynamic Therapy

Experience

8+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she help with?

Kaye works with relationship problems, grief, low self-esteem, anxiety and depression, plus blended family issues and other life changes.

What is her therapeutic style?

She uses a mix of Attachment-Based, Client-Centred and Cognitive Behavioural approaches to look at patterns and try practical steps.

How much experience does she have?

She has eight years' experience in counselling and related work with clients and trainees.

What are her professional credentials and where is she based?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises from the United Kingdom.

Can I work with her if I live outside the UK?

Sessions are offered to international clients and are conducted in English.

Which session formats does she offer?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as the biography does not specify exact formats.

How are sessions paid for?

Fees vary with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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