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Julie  Mayer Norvilas

Julie Mayer Norvilas, LMFT

Pennsylvania

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LMFT - Relationship and family concerns

  • Attachment work
  • Emotionally-focused tools
  • Gottman method elements

About Julie

Julie Mayer Norvilas is an LMFT (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist) with 16 years of clinical experience based in Pennsylvania. She focuses on relationship and family concerns and also addresses stress, anxiety, parenting, grief, self-esteem, and blended family issues. Julie works with adults who want practical help navigating relationship change and life transitions.

She approaches therapy in a collaborative, client-centered way. Sessions focus on clear goals and skill-building rather than abstract talk. Clients can expect conversations about attachment patterns, communication habits, and how everyday routines affect relationships. Julie uses tools from emotionally-focused work and the Gottman method to support emotional connection and better conflict habits.

Her background includes long-term practice with relationship and parenting concerns across the life cycle. She integrates attachment-based ideas to look at how past relationships shape current responses. Mindfulness techniques are used to help with stress and anxiety, and motivational interviewing supports changes clients want to make.

Julie also offers life coaching alongside therapy, helping people set practical steps for career or personal goals. She uses both video and phone sessions to make scheduling easier and to fit therapy into busy lives.

People who are dealing with a new stepfamily, co-parenting challenges, loyalty conflicts, or the strains of merging households may find her way of working useful. To begin, clients complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule an initial session to outline early goals.

How her approaches translate to online work

Attachment-based work looks at how early relationship patterns influence current responses. In practice this means identifying protectiveness, closeness needs, and ways people pull away or push for reassurance. It can help with insecurity, loyalty conflicts, and difficulties that come up when households merge.

Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) concentrates on emotions and interaction patterns. The therapist helps name feelings, slow down a reactive moment, and shift toward more secure emotional connection. This approach is often used for couples and relationship issues, including communication and intimacy concerns.

Client-centered therapy prioritizes the client's agenda. Sessions focus on what matters most to the person in front of the therapist, with the clinician following the client's pace and goals. That approach supports work on self-esteem, career decisions, or coping with life changes.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with the client to choose methods that match their needs, goals, and preferences. That choice can be adjusted over time as goals and circumstances change.

Her biography notes use of live video sessions and phone sessions. Confirm current session formats and scheduling details before booking so they fit into your routine. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy day, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and remove travel time so work and family obligations are easier to manage.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesParenting issues

Also works with

LGBTGriefSelf esteemCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPregnancy and childbirthSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyEmotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

16+ years

Listed in

Pennsylvania, New Hampshire, California, New York

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she address related to blended households?

She lists blended family issues along with relationship, parenting, communication, and co-parenting challenges among her areas of focus.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is collaborative and client-centered, emphasizing goal setting, skill building, and practical steps rather than abstract theory.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 16 years of experience working with relationship and family concerns and related stress and anxiety issues.

What credentials and location are listed for this therapist?

She is an LMFT licensed in CA and NY and practices from Pennsylvania.

Does she work in languages other than English or with international clients?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are used for appointments?

The biography indicates she uses live video sessions and phone sessions; confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees and billing handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the first steps to begin working together?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session to get started.

Online talk therapy is for adults and is not emergency care, mediation or legal advice. If you or a child are in danger, use the emergency numbers. Find someone else by name.

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