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Judith "Jude" Holland

Judith "Jude" Holland, BACP

United Kingdom

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BACP counsellor - relationships and trauma

  • Relationship difficulties
  • Trauma and abuse
  • Blended family issues

About Judith

Judith "Jude" Holland is a BACP-registered counsellor in the United Kingdom with 27 years of professional experience. She works with adults on relationship difficulties, trauma and abuse, grief, bipolar disorder, and coping with major life changes. She also supports people dealing with addictions, intimacy issues, eating and sleeping difficulties, low self-esteem, and career concerns.

Jude describes clients as experts in their own stories and looks for strengths people already have. She uses clear, practical conversations rather than jargon. Sessions focus on what is happening now and on steps that can ease daily life and reduce repeated problems.

Her background includes work in sexual assault services where she supported women and families, and service roles with men who experienced sexual assault. She has also run student counselling services and spent many years teaching therapy in further and higher education. Jude has led services in adult education settings, including work with performance anxiety in music students.

Her clinical approaches include Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Attachment-Based Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy. She aims to match methods to each person rather than using a single fixed model. Jude also offers coaching for abuse recovery alongside longer-term therapy work where that is helpful.

She works with a wide range of complex issues such as abandonment, attachment concerns, blended family issues, chronic illness, caregiver stress and communication problems. Sessions are conducted in English and she accepts international clients.

Therapeutic approaches and online sessions

Judith uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people notice what matters to them and take committed steps towards those values. ACT often helps when someone feels stuck by painful thoughts or emotions and wants practical ways to move forward. She also works with Attachment-Based Therapy to look at how early relationships influence current patterns. This approach can help with trust, closeness and repeated conflict in relationships.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Jude will discuss options with each person and choose methods together based on needs, goals and preferences. The aim is a collaborative process that adjusts as understanding grows and circumstances change.

The biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm current options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy around work, travel or family commitments. They can also allow shorter check-ins when needed, or sessions without being on camera if someone prefers less visual contact. Registered or accredited professionals and therapists often use online appointments to reduce travel time and help therapy fit into everyday life.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesTrauma and abuseGriefBipolar disorderCoping with life changes

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesDepressionCoaching

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHearing impairedHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)HypnotherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

27+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she help with?

She works with relationship problems, trauma and abuse, grief, bipolar disorder and major life changes, plus a broad list of related issues such as addictions and intimacy concerns.

What is her therapeutic style like?

She uses practical, conversational work and draws on approaches like ACT, attachment-based methods, CBT and DBT to help with thoughts, feelings and behaviours.

How much experience does she have?

She has 27 years of professional experience, including roles in sexual assault services, student counselling, teaching and service leadership in adult education.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is BACP registered and practises in the United Kingdom.

Can sessions be held in other languages or internationally?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are offered?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as the biography does not list specific formats.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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