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John Self

John Self, LPC

Texas

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Licensed Professional Counselor - relationships and addiction

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Addiction recovery
  • Blended family issues

About John

John Self is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) licensed in Texas with 30 years of clinical experience. He has worked with people facing stress, anxiety, relationship problems, grief, low self-esteem, and motivation challenges. John has a long history supporting people affected by addiction and trauma and talks frankly about the effort it takes to change patterns that get in the way of daily life.

John treats adults and adolescents and supports work on issues that interfere with everyday functioning. He describes clients as the experts on their own lives and uses that perspective to help clients apply their strengths. Sessions focus on practical steps - skills, strategies, and homework - that people can use between meetings.

Across his career he has worked with people managing mood disorders, substance use, caregiving stress, attachment concerns, and life transitions such as divorce and reintegration after deployment. He also lists blended family issues among his areas of focus and can address parenting and communication strains that come with merged households.

In session he draws from several approaches including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Attachment-Based and Client-Centered methods. That mix is used to build coping skills, improve communication, and address trauma-related symptoms when present.

John aims for clear, straightforward work. Expect focused conversations, practical exercises, and follow-up tasks designed to make small changes that add up. He supports people working toward better sleep, stronger relationships, steadier mood, and more effective routines.

Therapeutic approaches and how online sessions work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice thoughts and feelings without getting locked into them, then choose actions that match their values. It is often used for anxiety, stress, and life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the connection between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and teaches practical skills to change unhelpful patterns. CBT is commonly used for depression, anxiety, sleep problems, and low self-esteem.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with the client to pick methods that match the person's goals, needs, and preferences. That means trying approaches, checking what helps, and adjusting the plan together.

Confirm the current session options before booking since specific formats are not listed in the biography. Online sessions can make it easier to fit counseling into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and remove travel time so sessions work around work and family routines. For some people not using video can reduce bandwidth demands or make a session feel simpler. The emphasis is on practical ways to integrate therapy into daily life rather than on a single fixed format.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

30+ years

Listed in

Texas

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does he help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, relationship difficulties, grief, self-esteem, addiction, trauma, parenting concerns, blended family issues, mood disorders, and related topics.

What is his therapy style like?

He uses practical, skills-based work with clear exercises and homework. Conversations focus on actions people can try between sessions.

How much experience does he have?

He has 30 years of professional experience working with adults and adolescents on a wide range of concerns.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He is an LPC licensed in Texas and practices from that state.

Can I work with him if I live outside the United States?

Sessions are offered to international clients and are conducted in English.

What session formats does he offer?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as formats are not specified in the biography.

How is pricing handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Online talk therapy is for adults and is not emergency care, mediation or legal advice. If you or a child are in danger, use the emergency numbers. Find someone else by name.

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