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Erin Spensley

Erin Spensley, LPC

Wisconsin

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Licensed Professional Counselor - Relationships and Life Changes

  • Anxiety support
  • Blended family issues
  • Attachment work

About Erin

Erin Spensley is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) practicing in Wisconsin with six years of clinical experience. She works with adults on common concerns such as anxiety, depression, grief, and addiction. She also lists relationship issues, intimacy-related concerns, parenting stress, and blended family issues among her focus areas.

Erin uses practical, evidence-informed approaches to help people sort through emotional overwhelm. She leans on methods that address patterns in relationships and daily thinking. Sessions are collaborative and focused on clear goals and skills people can use between meetings.

Clients can expect conversations about communication, boundaries, and how past attachment experiences shape current relationships. Erin pays attention to things like self-esteem, coping with life changes, and relationship patterns that affect day-to-day functioning. She also supports people handling career stress, caregiving strain, or compassion fatigue.

Her work includes attention to neurodiversity and sexual diversity, with respect for kink and alternative sexual cultures listed among focus areas. Erin also notes experience with issues tied to aging, chronic illness, and serious life transitions.

Practical strategies such as cognitive behavioral tools and emotion regulation skills are part of the approach. Erin helps clients check assumptions, try new communication habits, and set realistic steps for change. To begin, people complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session through the site's process.

How Erin’s approaches translate to online work

Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early relationship patterns affect current connections. Online sessions can use this lens to look at loyalty conflicts, stepfamily roles, and communication habits in new households. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) helps people spot unhelpful thoughts and try different behaviors. In remote sessions this often means setting small experiments between meetings and checking progress together.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences, and what feels most useful. Together they decide whether attachment work, CBT, or a mix of methods best fits the issue at hand and the practical steps the client wants to take.

Confirm the exact session options before booking because formats are not listed in the profile. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into busy routines, allow shorter check-ins when needed, or remove travel time. It also makes it simple to practice communication skills between sessions and bring real-life scenarios into conversation without promising a particular format.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily problemsGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Gottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapySystemic Therapy

Experience

6+ years

Listed in

Wisconsin

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She works with adults on anxiety, depression, grief, addiction, relationship concerns, and life changes, plus a long list of related issues including blended family matters.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Her style is collaborative and goal-focused, using practical skills and talking through relationship patterns and daily thinking that get in the way.

How much experience does she have?

She has six years of experience as a clinician working with adults on a range of emotional and relationship issues.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) licensed in Wisconsin and practices from that state.

Which languages are supported and can international clients work with her?

Sessions are offered in English and she is not accepting international clients at this time.

What session formats are offered?

Confirm current session options before booking, as the profile does not list specific session formats.

How is payment handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule your first session.

Online talk therapy is for adults and is not emergency care, mediation or legal advice. If you or a child are in danger, use the emergency numbers. Find someone else by name.

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