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Barbara Mey

Barbara Mey, LMHC

Rhode Island

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Licensed mental health counselor - relationships and family

  • CBT techniques
  • Mindfulness practice
  • Values based ACT

About Barbara

Barbara Mey is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) practicing in Rhode Island with 20 years of experience. She works with adults on stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and family difficulties, addiction and recovery concerns, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting challenges, and other life changes. She also lists blended family issues among her focus areas. Barbara uses practical, evidence-based methods to help people cope and move forward.

She frames sessions as a collaborative process. Barbara listens for patterns that keep problems repeating. She introduces skills from cognitive behavioral therapy and mindfulness to help people notice unhelpful thoughts and try new behaviors. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy ideas also appear in her work to clarify values and short-term steps that match them.

Her training includes a master’s degree from Providence College and an advanced graduate certificate from Salve Regina University. Her background includes nearly a decade in community mental health and work at a substance abuse clinic. That experience shaped her approach to mood disorders, PTSD, substance use, and long-term adjustment issues.

In practice she mixes talk and skill practice. Sessions often involve naming patterns, testing small changes, and checking what works. She can also draw on motivational interviewing and solution-focused methods when people want help with specific behavior changes or short-term goals.

People find her straightforward and consistent in session. She aims to help clients build coping skills and practical plans they can use between meetings. If someone is managing blended household stress, co-parenting friction, or shifting roles after a separation, she addresses those topics alongside other concerns.

How Barbara’s approaches translate to online work

Barbara commonly draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Mindfulness Therapy in her practice. CBT focuses on identifying thought and behavior patterns that keep problems going and testing small changes to see what helps. Mindfulness Therapy trains simple attention skills so people can notice stress reactions and choose responses more deliberately.

She also uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy ideas to help people clarify what matters to them and take manageable steps toward those values. These approaches are often used together so practical skills and values-based goals reinforce each other. Barbara treats finding the right mix as a collaborative process and will work with each person to decide what fits their goals and preferences.

The practical benefits of online therapy are that sessions can fit into busy days and reduce travel time. If you need to schedule around work, caregiving, or medical appointments, online sessions can make that easier. Specific session formats are not listed in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. The therapist will help set a plan for how to use sessions effectively and how to try skills between meetings.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

AddictionsTrauma and abuseGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionFamily problemsGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Listed in

Rhode Island

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she work with?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and family problems, addiction and recovery, trauma and grief, parenting, and other life changes. Blended family issues are listed among her focus areas.

What is her therapeutic style?

Her style is practical and collaborative. She uses cognitive behavioral tools, mindfulness practices, and ACT ideas to help clients notice patterns and try different behaviors.

How much experience does she have?

She has 20 years of clinical experience, including work in community mental health and at a substance abuse clinic.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is an LMHC and practices in Rhode Island.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can she work with people outside the United States?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are sessions paid for?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin the process?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Online talk therapy is for adults and is not emergency care, mediation or legal advice. If you or a child are in danger, use the emergency numbers. Find someone else by name.

Barbara MeyLMHC

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